9 signs she's cheating on you

When we hear about cheating that may be going on in a relationship, our natural inclination is probably to suspect the man. That may not be unjustified, but there are plenty of women who cheat as well. Since women think so differently, and let’s face it, are probably better planners than men are, it might be harder for a guy to figure out that his wife or girlfriend is cheating than it is for a woman to figure out if a man is cheating. With that in mind, here are some signs guys can watch for that may be an indication that she’s cheating on you.

1 Suspicious contacts

 

If she’s suddenly become a bit more private about the phone calls, text messages and e-mail messages she receives, there may be a good reason for it. If she gets an unexpected phone call from a guy she’s cheating with, there’s a good chance her behavior will give her away. Whether or not you want to start snooping around on her phone or computer to find out for sure is a call only you can make.

2. Working late

 

This excuse is about as old as the hills, but could still be an indication that something’s up. If it’s possible to call her at work using some other number than her cell phone, it should be easy enough to call at some point when she is working late and see if she is actually there. If she’s cheating with someone at work, you may not learn anything this way.

3. A feeling 

Sometimes we just get “that feeling” that something isn’t quite right. It isn’t always reliable, but if you find yourself feeling a little suspicious, it might be warranted. Women are renowned for their intuition, but sometimes guys can pick up on things as well. It might be because your subconscious is picking up on little signs that you are not conscious of. When that feeling does not go away, it may be time to start looking into things.

4 She’s watching you

If she suddenly starts to show more interest in your schedule and the plans you have it might be a sign that she is keeping closer tabs on you so she knows when it will be safe to be with the other guy. Showing up at her place unexpectedly when you are “supposed” to be somewhere else is a great way to find out if she is keeping tabs on you for the wrong reasons.

5 New secrets

Sometimes a cheating partner will get a bit tight-lipped about her schedule and not be quite as open about her plans as she once was. This could be a red flag because she’d rather leave you in the dark about her whereabouts if she’s planning hook-ups with the other guy. Following her is definitely risky for the relationship, but if there’s enough evidence to suggest she’s up to no good, it might be a quick way to find out.

6 A new friend

Although it seems like it would be the last thing a cheater should do, they may actually try to cover up their new relationship by telling you they have a new friend. It could help to explain those mystery phone calls and text messages that she has started receiving lately. Simply asking her about it and probing for more information about her “friend” while watching how she reacts could provide clues about whether she’s cheating or not

7 Nagging and fighting

If she’s start getting more nit picky lately about the things you do, and nagging you, it may be due to the fact that she has soured on the relationship and may be seeing someone else. Sometimes nagging might be triggered by her own feelings of guilt over being unfaithful, and is on your case to justify in her own mind what’s she’s doing.

8 Attitude towards family

In this case, we are talking about her attitude towards your family. If she starts to pull away from relationships she has with your family members and wants to spend less time around them, it may be due to the guilt she’s feeling because of her behavior. She may also be reluctant to spend as much time around your friends as she once did.

9 Looking good

if she’s developed a desire to pretty herself up more than usual, it might not be for your benefit. Buying new clothes, make-up and spending more time fixing herself up could be a sign that she wants to look her best for her new squeeze. It’s possible that she’s decided that she wants a makeover just because she wants a makeover, but if this behavior is accompanied by some of the other items on this list, it could be a sign of trouble.