10 SIGNS YOU’RE DATING A BOY, NOT A MAN

10 SIGNS YOU’RE DATING A BOY, NOT A MAN

#1 NO AMBITION

While its true that young guys tend to lack focus,a guy should still have an idea of what he wants to become, and where he wants to go in life, and where he would hope to be in the next 5 to 10years. If the guy you are dating has no ambition, no plans, and plays xbox all day long, then you’re dating a boy, and not a man.

#2 YOU FEEL LIKE HIS MOM

If he never takes the initiative and does what he is supposed to do, and you’re constantly helping him, or yelling at him to take charge, or take responsibility, then he is a boy not a man.

#3 NOT GREAT WITH BIRTH CONTROL

In relationships, sex happens, and its up to both parties to responsibly do their parts to ensure that they are safe. The guy should always make sure that he has a condom with him, and not simply leave it to the girl to sort it out. When a man can take this basic precaution, she would feel more confident that he really does care about her and both of their well being.

#4 JEALOUS AND POSSESSIVE

Many women find overly jealous guys a real turnoff. While some might try to make the guy they like jealous, they never meant for him to go on a rampage, or consider committing a murder like this guy in the image here might be. If a guy continues in this way and never gives you any room to breathe, then he is a boy not a man

#5 MESSY

Guys tend to be messy during the dorm room phase. You may find clothing strewn all across the place, and empty boxes of takeout, empty cans of beer and other junk foods. If your guy has not grown out of this phase then chances are he is still a boy.

#6 ALWAYS BROKE

Guys tend to be broke for different reasons, one being that a man must overcome a lot in life before he can be secure financially. But if your guy doesn't even know how to manage his money, and blows his paycheck before monday arrives, then he is a boy and not a man.

#7 DRIFTS FROM JOB TO JOB

If he is always looking for a different type of job each time, and is mostly unemployed, this might mean that he has not yet figured out his path in life, and is still trying different options to see what he would like since he is not sure himself.Chances are, that he might be a boy.

#8 THROWS PERSONAL INSULTS
DURING AN ARGUMENT

If you’re a man and you must argue, then argue like a man, and stick to the facts. So if your guy can never stick to the main source of the argument and instead resorts to personal attacks in order to get a win, well…he may very well be a boy and not a man at all

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#9 HAS TEMPER TANTRUMS

A man has to accept that sometimes he will not always get his way, there will be disappointments along the way in life. When he is in a relationship he should be ready to accept that she might want to do something a little differently or completely differently from his way of doing things. She might even totally make some big and obviously preventable mistakes, the point is that how the guy handles it will say a lot about him.

#10 FLIRTS WITH LOTS OF OTHER WOMEN

We all like to be noticed, we like the validation from others that we may be doing something right. And then there are some guys that go the extra mile to be noticed constantly flirting with women. This shows that he lacks stability, it could also mean that he lacks the ability to commit to something, stick with something or see it through to the end. This type is not a man, but a boy.