7 Easy Ways To Know He Loves You

7 Easy Ways To Know He Loves You

So you have been dating this guy for quite some time now. Every moment with him seems precious, every place you go with him seems the most beautiful and the only thing you long for is being around him, always.

You are both in love with each other, and you want your relationship to be more than what it is at present, you want to take it further. Before taking that one step further though, you should be completely sure that he is the right person for you and that he loves you in the same way as you love him. So how do you know for sure that he is truly, madly and deeply in love with you and cares about you more than anything?

1. His respect for you will be unmatchable

Your respect would be his top-most priority. If anybody disrespects you, he will not tolerate it, and would even land a punch or two or break in a fight for you! He himself will never insult you with words or actions, within closed doors or in public. He will be persistent about it, and he will prove it with his actions.

2. You will be best friends

There is nothing more beautiful in this world that to be best friends with a person who you are also in love with and loved by equally. There will be no secrets between you and you do not have to pretend to be someone else in front of the man you love. With the man who truly loves you, you will never receive unpleasant surprises because everything is out there in the open. The bondage will be unbreakable, and no one would be able to break it no matter how hard they try.

3. He will know you inside out

So you laugh a lot, but one day you are upset about something; so he cracks a joke and you fake a smile, so as not to raise a concern. He will get to know for sure. If he really loves you, he will notice that you are faking that smile, and he will know that you are upset about something. And unless you tell him what you are upset about he will not leave your side because he feels responsible to make you feel better. He would not bother you, but he will let you know that he is here and you can share with him. It will surprise you that how much he knows about you without you talking about it.

4. He will introduce you to his friends and family

If he really loves you, he will invite you to hang out with his friends. If he goes to office parties or friendly occasions, he will openly introduce you to everyone, and chances are that all those people would have already heard a lot of good stuffs about you. Similarly, he would not hesitate to show you to his parents. He would not be shy, he would not be awkward, he would be confident introducing you to everyone he knows, which only indicates that he is sure about you.

5. He would love to hear you talk

You can share every little frustration with him; include girly gossips, current problems and anxieties too in the list, he will swallow everything. He will hear you. He will listen without getting irritated. He will laugh at a funny office incident, he will rub the tears off your face if you are really anxious about something, and provide you appropriate solutions if he can. In short he will always be there for you.

6. He will share with you his past, his present and his future

Once he is comfortable being around you and know and accept the kind of person you are, he will voluntarily share his past experiences and past mistakes with you, you won’t have to demand for it. Not only his past but in his day to day affairs, he will seek for your opinion and your consent, or in short, he would discuss with you and reach a mutual decision. And not to mention, if your relationship is going at the right direction, even the future plans would be shared with you, like a new house he is planning to buy or his future career plans. He may talk about getting married too and plan on having kids.

7. He will always find time for you

There are no words like “I am busy” in his dictionary because if he truly loves you, you will be his top priority always. He may have a tight schedule at work, but you will always be in his mind. Even though the long hours of calls and going on romantic dates may not be as regular as they used to be, but he will always check in on you to see if you are okay and happy. He will keep in touch with you through short calls, or SMS, or brief emails, but honey you will always be there, and you will never have to ask for your share of attention.

A relationship takes a lot of time to be at its full bloom; haste never got anyone anywhere, not even in relationships. Misunderstandings and fights will be there and it is only normal, but if he really loves you, he will sit and repair, rather run away from you. And remember, giving gifts, romancing on a beach against the setting sun, saying “I love you” in every little second, is sweet, but those necessarily may not mean “true love”. So give yourself time, once true love grows, it will know no bounds.