Friday, 11 April 2014

CENTRAL FACTS!!! CENTRAL FACTS!!! CENTRAL FACTS!!!



A winner is someone who recognises God’s given talent, develops that talent into skill to reach their ultimate goal.
You have two ears and one mouth. Follow that ratio. Listen more, talk less.
Stay faithful or stay single
The past is a ghost, the future is a dream. All we ever have is now-Bill Cosby
When I date someone I think of the long term. What’s the point of dating someone if you only want them temporary?
A person’s pupil gives information about their mental and emotional state
The best feeling in the world is knowing you actually mean something to someone. This can literally add years to your life.
Loyalty is hard to find these days, when you find it don’t lose it
Cheating is a choice not a mistake.
Never compare your girlfriend with another girl especially your ex.
Psychologically, words are powerful, and one cruel remark can wound someone for life.

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love facts



You call it “jealousy”. “I call it fear of losing you”

“I Love you” means, I accept you for the person that you are, and I do not wish to change you into someone else”

If I tell you I love you don’t you dare question that shit.

The more attracted you are to a person, the easier for them to make you laugh.

We’re more than friends but less than couples

I refuse to be in secret relationship. If we have to hide is not real

If you are in love with two people pick the second one because If you really loved the first, you wouldn’t have fallen for the second

The best thing in life is finding someone who knows all your mistakes and weaknesses and still thinks you are completely amazing

I don’t know what my future holds but I’m hoping you are in it

Sex makes females pretty, while having sex, the female body doubles on estrogen level. Which makes hair shine and skin becomes softer

I want a long lasting relationship. Someone who will be there for me, support me, trust me, comfort me, appreciate me, and love me.

I want my first marriage to be my only marriage.

Remember the girl who say “a lot of guys are after me “, should keep in mind that low prices always attract many customers.

If you love someone, tell him or her. Forget about the rules or the fear of looking ridiculous

Hate when people pretend to like something just to fit in

Shotgun wedding into which one or both partners are coerced, usually because the woman is pregnant.

The word facetiously comprises of all 5 vowels

When I get married divorce is not an option, Take your ass in in the other room, calm down because we are going to work out things.




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HOW TO TELL IF YOU’VE BEEN SINGLE FOR TOO LONG



There's really nothing wrong with living the single life, and some people can go months or even years without being in a relationship. However, at some time or another we all hit the breaking point . Find out if you've been single for too long by checking for these tell-tale signs. The first way you can tell you've been single too long is:

You Lose Confidence
You lose confidence in yourself. You begin to assume that you're just not attractive and that no one could possibly like you for who you are. This lack of confidence hurts your chances for a relationship because you'll start missing obvious signs of flirtation.

You Start Eating Junk
Being single means you get to be lazy, and that usually means you stop cooking real food. When you don't have to worry about feeding a second person, your freezer will start filling up with meals that only require pressing a few buttons to make. You'll also be less motivated to keep your waistline thin, and that means eating a lot more junk food

You Hit on Your Friends
One of the biggest mistakes that long-time singles make is going after close friends. You figure that you're out of options and you already know that you get along with this person, so why not? Don't do it. If your flirting backfires, and it most likely will, then your relationship will become extremely awkward. You could end up losing most of your close friends and feel even more alone than before. If you're really desperate, try asking your friends to set you up with someone they know.
 
You Play Video Games
All Day While there's nothing inherently wrong with playing video games, playing them all the time can become a problem. Most people use video games as a chance to escape the harsh realities of the world, and it can seriously mess up your social habits. If you really feel the need to game, try to play something that's easy to put down, or invite your real-life friends to play so that you don't get too lost in an online world.

You Turn Into a Slob
 It's a bit sad, but most people don't really care about appearances unless there's someone of the opposite sex present. If it weren't for women, men would never change their clothes or shower. If it weren't for men, women would never shave or wear makeup. Of course, physical appearance is just where the unraveling begins. After a while, being single eventually means that you lose all sense of manners or class.
 
 
 
 
You Lower Your Standards
If you can't manage to score a date for a long period of time, you'll be tempted to lower your standards. While getting an easy date might help boost your confidence, it will more than likely be a complete waste of time. You could very well end up in a long-term relationship with someone that you find unattractive or annoying. Stick to your guns and you'll thank yourself later.

You Ask Your Mother for Help
While your mother might be thrilled to see you more often, asking her for relationship advice is the last thing you want to do. If she sees that you're struggling to find a date, she'll probably try to set you up with a friend's relative from work that's just as lonely and desperate as you are. This is usually not the way to find a quality date. Plus, your mom will be happier to see that you can take care of yourself without your help.

30 WAYS TO SHOW LOVE WITHOUT SPENDING A PENNY



From the manliest man to the womanliest woman, everyone loves to feel loved and desire, treasured and cherished. But it’s not just the get in that feels so sweet: showering a lover with affection can make for double pleasure and double the fun.
“It’s important to shows our love on a regular basis, because it let your mate know that he or she matters to you,” says Karen Sherman PHD, a New York city based Psychologist and relationship expert. In the beginning phase of a relationship we put our best foot forward, trying to make a good impression then we tend to get lazy. We become complacent and let life get in the way. So to make it a point to let the apple of your eye know that he or she is still you’re a- number-one top banana no matter  if months, years or decades have passed since you first started seeing each other. "Do the things you did in the beginning," advises Sherman. "Appreciate each other, compliment each other, and let your partner know you're thinking about them. When you start to do those little things, your partner feels, 'Oh, I'm being noticed. I really do matter.'" Big splashy displays of affection can be fun, but in the end it's the little things that light us up and make us feel adored. There are so many other ways to express affection -- actions that require only creativity, not cash. Don't let money get between you and your honey: Try some of these free techniques -- and share the love!
 
1       Hug like you mean it. Hugs -- especially when given with true affection -- release the hormone oxytocin, which has been linked to sexual pleasure . Practice makes perfect!
2. Reinvitet date night. Don't fall back on other people's ideas about what constitutes a perfect date a. Plan your own version of quality time -- at home. Popcorn and a Portlandia binge-viewing? Scrabble and hot cocoa in bed? Love activated!
3. Write a poem. Nothing screams "romantic" louder than an original poem -- and yes, you can write one. Poems are just a collection of words expressing your thoughts and feelings. They don't have to rhyme.
4. Stargaze. Lay on the grass (if warm). Bring a hot toddy (if cold). While viewing the unfathomable universe, hold your loved one close and appreciate just how lucky the two of you are.
5. Enjoy some good old- fashioned sexercise. Not only does making love bring you closer physically, spiritually and emotionally, it also burns some calories. (Not that you need a reason.)


6. Make a call. "On your drive home, call them and say, 'I'll be home in 10 minutes. I can't wait to see you," advises Sherman. That extra line -- "I can't wait to see you" -- will give your message an extra dose of aww. 
 
7. Bottle up your love. Create a homemade "message in a bottle" and leave it bobbing in the bathtub or sink for your lover to find. The message doesn't have to be a letter. Anything paper will work: tickets, photos, drawings... 
 
8. Spoon. Cuddling not only builds intimacy, it's thought to release feel- good oxytocin, according to Rachel Salas, assistant medical director of the Johns Hopkins Center 
 
 9. Make eye contact. In the words of Audrey Nelson, Ph.D., it's the " strongest form of nonverbal communication ." So look into your partner's eyes and telegraph your love. 
 
10. Whisper sweet nothings. Whispering requires you to lean in. See how close you can get...

11. Hold hands. This simple physical connection expresses affection while keeping the two of you well within "public display of affection" guidelines. 
 
12. Mix it up. Ah, the mix tape. It's still one of the best ways to express your emotions via song. Burn your mix onto a disc or upload it to an online sharing site -- and make sure the title includes your loved one's name.
 
13. Write a love note. Spice things up with a heartfelt text that goes straight from your "sms heartphone" to your partner's. Or go old- school and tuck a sweet handwritten note into their coat pocket for a surprise discovery. 
 
14. Three words: breakfast in bed. Always appreciated. And the bed's right there, so when you're done eating... 
 
15. Learn your partner's "love language." Does he or she most feel loved when you say something sweet? Do something sweet? Give physical affection? Find out -- then start speaking the love language your partner understands .

16. Read aloud. Grab your partner's favourite novel or book of poetry and read a passage from it out loud (on the couch, in the bathtub, in bed...).
 
 
 
17. Ask your love to tell you a story from their past. Then listen -- really listen. "Active listening is the bridge to deeper intimacy and a more authentic connection in all of your relationships," notes up wave reviewer Terri Cole, Ph.D. 
 
18. Tell your partner what you love about them. Don't just repeat the same old compliments; dig deep and tell your partner something you've always appreciated but never expressed.
 
19. Make a coupon book. An oldie but a goodie! There are endless ways to get creative with this one; be sure to use your insider info to hit all your partner's favourite things. 
 
20. Give your partner a freebie. Check out Free cycle and Craigslist for all kinds of free things folks are giving away, and snag something you know your love would like. Score!

21. Tell your partner how they've changed your life. Share all the ways he or she has helped you overcome a problem, open your heart or see the world in a new light.
 
 22. Get dorky. Ask your inner middle-school self what would have made you swoon back in the day. Then, do that. Draw a heart on the bathroom mirror with lipstick. Put on your squeeze's favourite romantic song and grab them for a slow dance in the living room. 
 
23. Say yes. Is there a certain movie your partner wants to watch? A simple chore they'd like you do to? Let them have their way, just to make them happy.
 
24. Massage. Any time, any body part. Enough said, right? 
 
25. Share a secret. Instead of unloading something heavy, though, build intimacy by sharing a dream or memory that reveals who you are on a deeper level.

26. Say thanks. Hearing "thank you" makes everyone feel special. 
 
27. Give a slideshow. We snap photos of everything these days, but rarely look at those pictures twice. There are so many free slideshow makers online. Why not make a slideshow that celebrates your time together? 
28. Use flattery. Apparently, it really does get you everywhere. A recent study found that, in general, participants felt more satisfied in partnerships where their significant other flattered them. So keep on whispering those sweet nothings. Who knows? It may turn in to something! 
 
29. Smile. You know how good it feels to be smiled at by someone who's looking into your eyes? Exactly. 
 
30. Serenade. If you can actually sing and/or play an instrument, great! If not, even better: Going out of your comfort zone to show your love might make an even bigger impact (and definitely will elicit more giggles).